What to Do When Your Child Wants a Pet

When my daughter was four years old, she asked for a pet. We were visiting the zoo at the time and she saw a monkey playing with its trainer. She said, “Mommy, I want to have a monkey just like that.” I told her we would have to think about it because monkeys are very expensive and need lots of attention from their owners. That night as we cuddled up in bed reading a book before going to sleep, she asked again: “Mommy? Can we get a dog?” Who could say no to that? In response to her puppy-dog eyes and her sweet smile, I replied: “Maybe one day when you’re older.”

Owning a pet is a big responsibility, but it can also be very rewarding.

Owning a pet is a big responsibility, but it can also be very rewarding. It’s important to remember that your child will be responsible for feeding, cleaning up after, and caring for the pet on their own.

Because of this, you may want to consider getting your child involved in the decision about which type of animal would make the best fit for their lifestyle and personality. This could help them better understand their responsibilities when deciding whether or not they’re ready for such a commitment.

It’s also important to teach kids how much time each animal needs during daily care; some animals require more attention than others do (like cats vs dogs). If your family has busy schedules then maybe having two pets would work better than one!

Talk about responsibilities.

If your child has decided that they want a pet, it’s time to discuss the responsibilities that come with having one. Talk with them about how owning an animal can be a lot of work, but also how rewarding it can be. Discuss how much time they’ll need to spend caring for the animal, feeding it and grooming it (this will differ depending on the type of pet). You may also want to talk about training the animal so that it learns basic commands like sit and stay.

Discuss what type of pet you want.

First, discuss what type of pet you want. Different pets require different amounts of work and commitment, so make sure that the one you choose is right for your lifestyle. For example, if you’re very busy with school or work, it’s probably not a good idea to get a dog; instead, consider adopting a cat or another low-maintenance animal.

Also talk about where you will keep the pet—if it isn’t allowed in your apartment/house/apartment building/household space due to rules against animals or if there aren’t enough rooms available for everyone in the family to have their own space (this can be especially difficult if everyone wants their own room), then another option may need to be considered.

Next comes time spent caring for the pet: does everyone have time each day? Are there any vacations planned soon? What about holidays like Christmas when family members are likely unavailable due to traveling home for visits with relatives? If anyone has very little free time but still wants one of these animals as a companion animal then perhaps something else should be considered instead; we don’t want anyone feeling resentful toward an animal because they feel obligated by social pressures from others who think it would look better than having no one there at all during those precious few moments off per week!

Prepare for the pet’s arrival.

  1. Clean the house.
  2. Get a cage or aquarium.
  3. Get a collar and leash.
  4. Get a bed for the pet to sleep on, as well as food and water bowls.
  5. A litter box is also necessary for cats, but some dogs are trained to go outside like their wild ancestors do! If you choose this option, you’ll only need an outdoor yard where your dog can relieve himself in peace (and privacy).
  6. Toys are great for pets; they’re not just fun for them—they help keep them occupied when you’re not around! If your pet has a tendency toward destructive behavior or boredom, consider buying a few chew toys that will keep him engaged when you’re not around. A grooming kit is also important so that you can brush fur or bathe your animal if needed; dogs with long hair may need regular brushing or haircuts every six months or so! And finally: don’t forget about carriers! Pets should always be transported in carriers while traveling from place to place so they don’t get lost in transit and cause mayhem when they arrive at their destination.

Consider the pet’s needs.

If your child is adamant about having a pet, it’s important to make sure that the animal is able to live comfortably in its new home. Ask yourself:

  1. What does my child’s living environment have to offer? That includes everything from space to noise levels.
  2. How does this fit into my lifestyle? Do I have time for a new addition? Am I prepared for any unexpected costs or responsibilities that come with owning a pet?
  3. What do I want out of this relationship? Are you looking for companionship or something more casual like feeding and cleaning up after them? And remember—you don’t need an animal as a friend! We all need friends but if you’re not getting enough socialization already then maybe having an animal isn’t right for you right now.

Be patient.

It’s important to be patient when your child brings up getting a pet. Pets are living animals and they need to feel comfortable before they can fully trust you. It takes time for them to get used to their new home, especially if it’s a big change from where they were before.

It also takes time for your family members (including you) to train the animal and bond with it. If this is your first pet, there will be times when everyone in the household has different ideas about how best to care for it or how often it should be fed or bathed. When there’s disagreement on these matters, try not to get upset or angry; instead focus on coming up with compromises that work for all involved parties’ needs so that everyone feels heard and respected.

If possible, try setting aside some quiet time every day when no one else is around so that each person can spend some quality bonding time with their chosen companion animal (or even multiple types of pets if there are several children).


We hope that by reading this, you’ve learned a little more about how to talk to your child about getting a pet. As we said earlier, it can be a difficult conversation to have, so don’t get discouraged if your child isn’t immediately excited about the idea. With time and patience, you should be able to convince them that having their dream animal is worth the effort—even if that means giving up some screen time!

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